Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Let's Re-visit the Life List, Shall We??

This is my Life List.... because at 33 years old, I don't want to call it a bucket list!  I need to re-visit it once in a while to see how I am doing... Here it is!

  • Read for pleasure at least 3 times a week... because I LOVE to read!!!!
  • Attempt a Nickerson 365 at  2011 Nickerson 365
  • Finish cooking my way through the Pioneer Woman Cookbook (but slowly as they are NOT diet friendly foods!!!)
  • No crazy diet here or weigh loss number in pounds... but I aim to get back to working out at least 3 days a week and eating healthier to be a happier me  =)
  • Paint, build shelves, decorate, SOMETHING in my office/sewing room to make it my own
  • Participate in a 5K (even if I walk it)
  • Ride a Mechanical Bull
  • Play more WITH my kids instead of just fostering their play
  • Take the boys Canoeing
  • Donate $100 to a charity --this equates to putting aside $2 a week to donate by the new year 2012
  • Scream less and hug more
  • Find something (no matter how big or small) which financially helps my family
  • Say "No" when I need to without feeling guilty and say "Yes" even when it seems more in my comfort zone not to
So, how am I doing???

Reading has not been an issue... I definitely read AT LEAST 3 times a week, and it does wonders for my stress level. 

I am on day 138 of my 365 photo project... on day 138!  I have had to post a week's worth at once at times, but I am sticking with it and enjoying it still. 

I haven't gotten my Pioneer Woman cookbook out lately... I will browse through it today as I work on my grocery list. 

I haven't been doing so well with the diet and exercise goal, but I am hoping to do better in the sunshine! 

Do something in the Craft room... I did a HUGE purge which involved getting big pieces of furniture out even.  Shelves to come next for sure! 

Participate in a 5K... I REGISTERED TODAY!!!!  I even did my first day of training (2 miles) in the rain =)  My "I Did Beats I Will Anyday" sign is again my motivation!

This sign has hung by my porch for the last 17 months... I originally placed it there as motivation NOT to go onto that porch and smoke.  I have been a non-smoker for 17 months! IT WORKED!  Today I moved it to my front door... the door I will walk out of every morning when I head out to train for my first 5K =)


I have definitely been playing more with my kids too... though baseball takes up a lot of our time at the moment.  I am always there to cheer for them which is very important.  And we have been playing board games and such as well through the rainy-ness lately.  I am definitely a work in progress on the "Hug More Scream Less" goal as well.... but it is on my heart to do better...


Canoeing with the boys and riding a mechanical bull... These are still off in the future. 

I did rejoin Mary Kay to make a bit of extra money to help my family... and I have made $200 so far.  I have not been putting $2 a week aside towards my charity donation goal, so I am $40 behind at this moment.... Oops!!!

Last but certainly not least.... saying "yes" and "no" more appropriately... doing what is right for my family and I without worrying all the time about how it will affect everyone else.  This is a daily work in progress... with successes and failures for sure.  I am working on it though!

SO, all in all, not too bad!  I am making strides in some area anyway, and I am proud of myself =)

Now -- off to have a dance party with my Lanie xoxo

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

The Chaos and the Peace

There is definitely a fine line between chaos and peace these days.  With all the running between 2 baseball teams, ballet, school functions, errands, story time...and all the housework, laundry, cooking... and friends and family obligations... It can be difficult to carve out even a few moments of quiet and stillness that is becoming more and more necessary as I get older.  My patience wears a bit easier these days... my motivation falls a bit quicker... my to-do list takes a little longer to cross off.

On the other hand, I love being there though for everything!  I don't want to miss a game or a lesson or a practice... or a photo op! LOL  So I bring it on myself, and I don't accept help... I want to be Super Mom but I want to have "Sit on my ass time" as well. 

So, I rejoice in the tiny moments that make my heart smile quietly and count down the minutes to the louder moments that make me proud to be a busy wife and Mommy.

My babies and I on Mother's Day
I love my little man in uniform!
Family game night fun =)

Lanie's little hands planting the roma tomatoes.  I love that my little girl will play in the dirt with Mommy =)